Protecting Your Energy
Oh be the connection between the two that of physical and spirit. Everything seems to somehow be connected really between the two, which brings more of the concentration to the subject at hand. Protecting thyself. Protecting Your Energy.
Thankfully I can say that throughout my journey I have had a pretty strong backbone to handle many situations with close friends and passing individuals in good judgement. Not to long ago I had an interaction with a certain individual within my close circle of influence (which is very tight btw), & it rubbed me in the wrong way. After looking over the situation I realized that it made me feel some type of way because it wasn’t the first occurrence of such happening. Im sure you want the details right ? Well how can I put it in one word…(hmm)…much as I don’t care to use this word…Envy. Yeah (sighs), envy. Over what?…Didn’t care to waste my time to figure out all of that out because that is irrelevant to my happiness and success. However the fact that it was from someone so close to me for such a long time was a first for me. I let it go on from some time just to make sure my ass wasn’t trippin’. (Wendy Williams face). After different occasions upon our time spent it became a repetitive thing. Then I realized…[yeah André], call a spade a spade. It was what it was, and it was not healthy. And that’s what we don’t do.
What happened in the situation you may ask ? Well let me explain, after me realizing what it was I simply had to reevaluate and RE-SHELVE the friendship.
Now side note: Let me elaborate on something really quickly. Everything has levels to it, so the level/depth of your friendship/associateship with in individual determines how much you’ll go out on a limb to “save” that friendship. [Back to paragraph].
Point to be made, protecting your energy is of so much importance. Who we surround ourselves with are a reflection of who we are inside. Not only who you surround yourself with but how you surround yourself with them. That “how” consists of the amount of time spent with the person whether you're reducing it or simply cutting it off cold turkey. Simply said, you are the one to make that decision.
-ÁJ